Jennifer Lopez and Kevin Costner’s Friends Support Them Dating

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck called it quits on their marriage in August 2024 and finalized the divorce in January 2025. After Lopez served Affleck divorce papers, she said she planned to focus on herself moving forward. However, rumors suggest she and Kevin Costner looked cozy in Aspen. Now, Lopez and Costner’s friends allegedly believe they’d make “a super fun match.

Jennifer Lopez and Kevin Costner’s friends allegedly think they’d make a ‘fun match’

Jennifer Lopez and Kevin Costner haven’t spoken out regarding their rumored romance. However, the rumor miss is heating up after their exchange in Aspen. Lopez and Costner were looking cozy while speaking to each other at a bar in Colorado around Christmas in 2024. According to a source, Lopez flattered Costner by speaking highly of his professional work.

“J.Lo expressed her love of Yellowstone, as well as her disappointment over Kevin’s departure, and he was hugely flattered,” a source told Life & Style. “She was quick to let him know she adores Horizon, too, which went a long way to stroke his ego.”

The source added that “timing” matters — and it might be the perfect time for them both. While Lopez just finished finalizing her divorce from Ben Affleck, Costner finalized his divorce from Christine Baumgartner in February 2024. “Plus, pals on both sides think that J.Lo and Kevin would make a super fun match,” the insider continued.

A source told Closer Online UK that Costner and Lopez bond over what they have in common. “Music is something so close to J.Lo’s heart; there’s just a special language that she can share with other musicians, so that’s a big plus,” the insider shared. “Kevin is also someone who has taken a lot of big gambles on himself, just like J.Lo has. There aren’t a lot of people in Hollywood that have funded their own projects, so that’s something they immediately bonded over.”

Kevin Costner shared what he’s looking for in a romantic partner

Kevin Costner and his ex-wife, Christine Baumgartner, ended their marriage after 18 years. Costner spoke to Fox News Digital in June 2024 regarding what he’s looking for in his next romantic relationship.

“A person who wants to be loved, and they want to be, you know … feel like they’re at their very best,” the actor revealed. “And that love helps that and doesn’t hinder it.”

Costner has gone through two divorces. He and Cindy Silva were married for 16 years before divorcing in 1994. In 2012, he told The Hollywood Reporter that his “faith was shaken” by the end of the romance. “No one wants their marriage to end, and it did,” he stated. “You are going to see the people you love most, your children, only half as much. That’s a huge loss.”

Lopez can identify with Costner’s feelings. She’s been divorced four times and had twins with her third husband, Marc Anthony.

Ben Affleck has reportedly ‘completely moved on with his life’

While rumors regarding Jennifer Lopez’s dating life are heating up, Ben Affleck is staying out of the media spotlight. A source told DailyMail.com that he has “completely moved on with his life.” He also allegedly has reservations about going to the 2025 Sundance Film Festival at the end of January. Affleck is invited to attend because of his producer credit on Kiss of the Spider Woman, which Lopez stars in.

“Ben worked hard on the film and it is something he is proud of, but he knows that if he goes to Sundance, his appearance will mean the focus is not on his artwork but rather, it will be focused on his interactions with his ex,” the source explained.

” … The last thing he wants is his work to be overshadowed by his past relationship,” they continued. “He wants the film to be talked about, not his failed marriage.”