Ben Affleck Is Reportedly “Reaching Out” to J.Lo Again as Source Reveals “Secret”

There have been a lot of conflicting sources about how everyone’s feeling in the wake of Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner’s Paintball PDA™, and the latest? A source tells Page Six that J.Lo is “devastated,” but has told everyone around her not to lay into Ben.

“She’s actually devastated,” an insider close to the multi-hyphenate says. “She’s keeping it together publicly but she’s told everyone around her not to trash Ben. She doesn’t want to get down in the dirt with him.”

Meanwhile, one source claims that both Jennifer & Jennifer are fully not interested in Ben. At least romantically.

“I’d say they’re both relieved to be done with him. Ben’s an emotional roller coaster. He’s even been reaching out to Jennifer [Lopez] again recently. The two Jennifers are actually friends. They bonded over co-parenting their kids… Who wants the guy? You think he’s the prize? No way. It’s like, ‘Next!’”

Oh, and a source also claims that “The dirty secret is that he’s the diva. He’s the one who likes attention and calls the paps and manipulates women. He love-bombs you and once he’s got you, he gets bored and leaves. It’s cruel.”

That SAID, yet! another! source! tells the outlet that “I hate to say it, but I can see J. Lo taking him back a third time.”

Truly a lot to process here. Take your time.